**am i doing something wrong?**

[pimpinpippin23]

Ok, so heres my problem. sometimes, when im on the phone with my bf, i'll think everything is going fine, and then he'll just get pissed @ me. He doesnt always tell me, but i can tell in his tone of voice. When he does tell me, he wont tell me why, which is understandable to let him cool off in some cases, but.....
whenever this does happen, he goes off and likes jordyn out of anger. hes mad @ me, he wont tell me why, if he even tells me @ all, and he turns his anger into affection for someone he knows i hate. to me, there is something kinda messed up about that.
any advice guys?

[LastEmp]

i have similar problems wiv ma girlfriend! she has mood swings all the time (not just pre menstrual ones) and she can push me off when i touch her orshow her a little affection! shes always had problems telling me whats wrong, and if i bring it up she thinks im gettin on her case! she doesnt know shes doing it sometimes. and its only cause her sister tells her that she notices! so she dont do it as much anymore! i work away sometimes too! for like 3 or 4 dayz! and that works great coz we realize what we miss about each other!

so my advice is... try gettin someone else to tell him to calm down! someone neutral! (that way he might se he is wrong, and not just think its you gettin on his back)...spend a few days apart... i know youll miss him but if he misses you as much then you should be real happy to see each other!