All right, it may be a bit early to be trying to sort the answer to this out, but I'm gonna try anyway.
I'm a 19 year old young woman and I met a 23 year old guy through a dating website. The site offers services for serious dating, and for simple hookups. He didn't have which one he was interested in specified.
Basically, here's what happened:
We clicked on the website through messages, and decided to meet up for coffee. The date went fantastically well, with us talking and sharing music and having a good time for several hours.
The next day, I asked if he'd like to hang out again, and without hesitating he said yes. We went on a walk, then went to his house and played video games for a while, and spent the afternoon and evening just generally having fun, laughing, goofing around, etc.
I ended up staying the night, and you can guess what that implies happened.
The next morning we both got up and I went with him to take care of some stuff for college, and then we had breakfast together and spent time at the park. He introduced me to a bunch of his friends, and we literally spent nearly the entire day together, from when we woke up at 6 a.m. to when I had to leave at 7 p.m. All the while, he was affectionate (hugging, putting his arms around me as we're standing, linking arms as we walk, etc), and he left his friends to walk me to the bus station. Before I got on the bus, he hugged me for a reasonably long moment, then initiated a kiss. He continued to text me throughout the evening and suggested we do something the next day. To make a long story short, we've hung out a couple of times since then, though we haven't had sex. (We've been suggestive and teasing, though.) He texts and calls me often, without it being a ton, and asks questions about how I'm doing and what I'm up to.
Here's the kicker, though. In spite of all of that, I can't get a read on what he's looking for. He is a natural flirt, and a couple times (in context) he's made comments like "relationships don't ever last", and has mentioned that he hasn't had very many serious relationships (basically something along the lines of "I can count the number of relationships I've had on two hands still. I can't even begin to count the number of people I've been with though.")
I've got the beginnings of a crush, since he's a lot of fun and I'm highly attracted to him, but I don't know if this is just going to be a friends with benefits situation, or if he wants something serious or not. I haven't had the stones to ask him to define what he's looking for, mostly because I just don't want to scare him off by asking this early (it's only been about a week), and I don't want to put any pressure on him at all.
I've done my best to be flirty, and have made it clear that I enjoy his company immensely without being clingy, needy, or too forward.
What do you guys think? Does he think I'm just easy and wants to keep me around for the sex? Or could he be interested in more? Like I said, I know it's a little soon to be worrying about it, but if it's purely sex I want to be able to nip this crush in the bud before it goes too far, so I can keep my feelings in check rather than making the FWB awkward or painful.
All opinions are welcome.