On a road trip and the sexual tension is driving me crazy!

[Maple1714]

Awwww great to hear!!!

[Lovethesun]

I hope it was everything you'd imagined it would be. And that you didn't 'have to' have a few drinks to do it

Two glasses of wine at dinner, but trust me, I didn't "have to" have anything.
Believe it or not, even though what happened was AMAZING, I stopped it before we actually "hooked up". He respected that (I know, I know... what the f*@k am I doing, right?)
I want to stick to my original plan and see how he acts around me during the wedding. If he ends up blowing me off, then I'll know what his real motive was and I can move forward and forget about him. If not, then I have no problem continuing where we left off.

[Lovethesun]

Awwww great to hear!!!

Thanks. I even took some of your wardrobe advice *lol*

[Maple1714]

Thanks. I even took some of your wardrobe advice *lol*

Hahaha that's awesome! Works every time That is great that you stopped right before you guys had sex too...leaves him REALLY wanting more lol! Now the tension will build and after the wedding when you get back home I hope you guys end up dating and heat things up! I am sure he will not ignore or diss you at the wedding...sounds like a nice guy from what you have shared with us here. Good luck!!

[No1uno000]

At some point ask him if he'd like to share a dessert with you then "accidently" drop your spoon/fork on the ground. See if he offers you a bite from his. If so, then you're in the clear. If not, then know that you have a new best friend.

[Boisdevie]

I stopped it before we actually "hooked up". He respected that

1. Why didn't you have sex if it was going so hunky dory?
2. Are you trying to in some way test him?
3. He respected that. Are you sure. If a grown up woman did that to me I'd suspect she was a cockteaser and not bother in future.

[smackie9]

1. Why didn't you have sex if it was going so hunky dory?
2. Are you trying to in some way test him?
3. He respected that. Are you sure. If a grown up woman did that to me I'd suspect she was a cockteaser and not bother in future.

Not every adult thinks like a 19 year old or jumps in the sac by the 3rd date.

[UdoKier]

Not every addult thinks like a 19 year old or jumps in the sac by the 3rd date.

Haha. Thats what most people say but from my experience it seems like women who are sober, jump into the sack quicker now than when I was 19. They know what they want, if they have a need, they fill it.

[smackie9]

That's just a need ....this lady would like more than a "need" to be fulfilled.

[TheCafeTerrace]

1. Why didn't you have sex if it was going so hunky dory?
2. Are you trying to in some way test him?
3. He respected that. Are you sure. If a grown up woman did that to me I'd suspect she was a cockteaser and not bother in future.

I was thinking these three things too.

[smackie9]

Don't worry guys I'm sure there will be a happy ending at the end of the reception tomorrow night lol.

[Lovethesun]

1. Why didn't you have sex if it was going so hunky dory?
2. Are you trying to in some way test him?
3. He respected that. Are you sure. If a grown up woman did that to me I'd suspect she was a cockteaser and not bother in future.

Really? Are you kidding me?
For questions 1 and 2, refer back to post #47. THAT'S why I didn't have sex with him.
As for #3, well, that just says a lot about you, doesn't it? I guess if a woman doesn't give it up to you right away, you walk. That's fine. If sex is all you're after, then whatever. I'm looking for more than that.
If I had CONSTANTLY been throwing the goods in his face and then going back, maybe you'd have a point. But it happened once.
If I don't respect myself, I can hardly expect anyone else to.

[searock]

She already said that she is "testing" him, she wants to see if he'll lose interest by the time the wedding's over, or if he'll stick around and is willing to wait - which to her means that he somehow cares for more than just a jump in the sack.

Edit - never mind, she explained it better than me, obviously :-).

[Lovethesun]

Haha. Thats what most people say but from my experience it seems like women who are sober, jump into the sack quicker now than when I was 19. They know what they want, if they have a need, they fill it.

Honey, I'm not speaking for other women, but if all I wanted a "need" fulfilled, I wouldn't go through all this trouble. I don't have any problem getting my needs met when that's what I'm after. But believe it or not, it's ALSO great when you meet someone you genuinely care about AND have your needs met at the same time. You should try it sometime.

[Boisdevie]

Don't worry guys I'm sure there will be a happy ending at the end of the reception tomorrow night lol.

Yeah, he'll get bored and **** somebody else.