This is most likely a no, right?

[Indestructible]

Little bit of back story here; this past Thursday, I did something I've never done in my life (I'm 23, by the way) -- I asked out a girl that I really like. I said we should go out some time, and she very calmly and plainly said "Like a date?". I said yes, and she said that every time she's dated a coworker in the past, it never worked out; but she ended by saying "Let me think about". She seemed pretty genuine when she said that, but what do I know?

Honestly, I can respect her decision either way. Heck, I overheard another (male) coworker asking her out a few weeks ago, and she kept deflecting him by saying "I feel like that would be really weird". At least I got an honest explanation out of her, I suppose. It's just a little sad, too, because I've really come to like her a lot, and I had a good feeling about her and me.

I don't... mean to sound like I'm obsessing over it, but unless something unexpected happens in the next few days, I won't see her again for almost two weeks. I'm trying to keep my mind off her, and like I said, I'm not necessarily "obsessing" over it. But it's always there in the back of my mind, yanno? I just wonder, from a girl's perspective, is this most likely going to be a "no" from her, like I'm expecting it to be?

[smackie9]

It's a no......


Here's the deal....when a girl is really interested in someone, they don't care if they are too busy or are a coworker, etc.....if you hear excuses, that's your cue to "not interested".