ok... here is my problem .. i love a girl with a boyfriend lol.. i know is wrong but my feeling toward her are very strong... it can't be help.At first we are good friend but when time fly we come to a relations of part time gf and bf not that kind of sex partner just we do all couple thing should do like feeding me eat,lying on her shoulder calling her honey or darling etc but we dont kiss, hug or even hold our hands.We keep this relation for some time but thn i begin to realise i love her too much.. when she is with her bf i will jealous and my heart will pain...i starting to question myself does she love me ? because from the start to part time bf all action is done by me i mean i am the active one, somehow every time i say love you or what she wont reply me or i dont know why everytime i say good nite she wont reply .I know she too have feel towards me.. i ask her before do you like me ? and do you have feel towards me ? she avoid the question a few time but lastly she answer yes. But if she love me i dont know why she so passive i understand she have a bf but if u have bf u should not have feel toward me and treat me good like feeding me and let me call you honey or darling .. this is all too over for normal friends. .... maybe we are both wrong...so lately i was protecting myself from getting hurt by her.. cause somehow some moment i very need her she just wont be there for me and i will sad and emo for nothing or sometime she and bf was so sweet that hurt me very much ... so i was protecting myself by locking up my feeling to wards her . I do ignore her as much as i can. even last time we usually everyday chat together i stop chatting her for few days..thn i though i was able to control my feeling towards her...cause i just tell myself she just care about her bf and if i leave her she wont care or even just ignore it..But i was wrong .. one days she msj me say that she miss me .... what happen to me ? why keep avoiding her... this is the first time she is the active one who say miss me...i though i was wrong that she will not concern if i leave her but when i try chatting with her like usual she just become the old she ... become very passive and dint care much about me... Actually i am a simple guy.... i just need her concern and care .. i just wanna hear she love me or she miss me but she dint tell me once except for the last time....so any advice for me ? should i continue with the relationship? or stop ? or ask her what ? or tell her what i feel ? or??? can anyone pls help me!!! i really need help from you all ..thanks