I think I got her attention again... When do I make the move?

[mdreamer]

Hello! First post here, I hope the ladies can help

I met this girl a couple of months ago, that I had a great interest since I can remember. I met a friend of hers online and showed my curiosity about her friend. It was risky but it went well and soon I was trading facebook messages with her. Since the beginning she seemed very interested too, like she also had already some interest in me before we met. And unfortunetely that made me rush things.

Long story short, after a few dates, we started kissing. I felt she liked it but was unconfortable. She had broke up a 2 year relationship in only a few weeks and I suspected that was rolling in the back of her mind. Still I rushed things again and after a while I went to ask her If she wanted to be my girlfriend, she told me that it was too recent and that she was still getting her head back together. I thought, ok you're getting dumped. But she didn't walk away, we kept contact and intimicy. After a while I decided to ask her out a few times and that's when things got weird, she didn't reply in time and I figured, ok this isn't my time.

I gave it time with no contact. In this time she made contact with me one time, but I didn't give any more signs of wanting her. Then after a while I decided to "accidently" pass by her store to see how would be her reaction. And it went great, she had that smile on her face, eye contact everywhere, and I asked her to go watch my concert next friday and she imediately accepted.

Could the problem be that it was too soon in the first time? I feel she likes me, or she wouldn't waste time coming to a concert right? I'm affraid to rush things again...

What signs should I wait? She is a little shy and normally I had to do all the work...

Thanks in advance!!

[cheekxs]

Taking time to heal from a break up is good for everyone.
For her and for you!

For you cause, often when people are not over their ex, you will find your self
at a certain point that they will cheat on you with this ex.

Or ind of use you to forget the ex.

Or end the relationship with you soon to go back to their ex.

So if you know someone just broke up, you need to keep things as friends without kissing or whatever.
Or just go date someone else!

So dont wait till she tells you she is not over her ex.
If you know its to early or she is not into you dont go there.

And rushing relationships is always bad. So i dont know why you act like a moron
but soon you will get hurt. thnx to your own foolishness.

[Anne_Whittaker]

That is so true i agree with you