I gues I haven't been showing respect the last 10 years. When we have talked in the past he has told me he hasn't felt respected. I thought I was but I guess I haven't. We have bEen going through some tough times and because I haven't been there for hom in the past he has fEelings for another woman he has worked with and sometimes go to movies with and confides in her and a couple other women instead of me since I haven't showed him respect and over reacted to things he has sad and done. I have snooped in the past but my gut was twlling something wasn't right. How do I give my husband respect? What is respect to men? I guess you can say I have a hard time seeing it cause I have so much hurt and anger and feel un loved since there has been times he pics his friend that is a girl over me and it feels like he cares about his lady friends more then me. I feel I owe it to him so it would be great if I could get a mans idea on what respect is.