Guy advice

[deannam]

I'm not very good at relationships because of trust issues (I've been cheated on an abused in past ).

Recently I started seeing a guy . I have let him do all the "asking out" and chasing cuz it takes anxiety off of me.

Yesterday, we slept together for the first time and today I donn't hear from him all day even though he usually texts
I took this as a bad sign that maybe he using me like the others.

So tonite, i wrote him asking "hey you? are we still on for thursday? if so, i need to make plans for my work (I am doing shifts each week and have to call in my hours).

I was just being honest but slightly acting of anxiety.

He wrote back that ya, it was good,things were still on. What should I do? Was my message ok? I' still kind of mad.

[TheCafeTerrace]

Yeah, it was fine, chill out.

Maybe he was using you, but if he wasn't and you start becoming all high-maintenence then he's going to lose interest. Just see how it goes when you see him on Thursday.

[MaidenMinx]

Was your message ok? It got a response didn't it?

[a-brainwavelove]

Yeah, your message was fine, don't worry so much about it! Just see how things go on Thursday!