I'm not sure if this belongs here. But Im posting regardless.
Feel free to clarify any questions you have, because my head is in a mess and I hope someone can help me sort this out.
I have a one year plus relationship with my girlfriend.
She parties a lot. And I became a controlling boyfriend. Every time she goes to a club, I will be worried.
We had a lot of issues of her partying, till a point where I would nag and her, but she doesn't enjoy nagging. So, she will become frustrated and annoyed.
Till a point, I initiated a breakup. I know it's stupid. But i want her back later. And she refuses. Later I found out after we broke up, she has already liked someone else. So, she didn't want a make up.
After a few dramas which is too long to say here. The guy had problems with her. And I was there for her. One day, I brought her to her house and talked. Soon
we had sex.
She cried while we were having intercourse half way.
I asked her why. She said she liked someone else, but she is still doing this with me, she says she is being unfair to me.
She said she didn't have sex with anyone else. She also touched herself more recently.
We still having sex a lot after that. But she still think about the good times with that guy. I'm just amazed how fast she got over me, and moved on to the new guy, and cry over him. Now, I do not know what to do. I want her to be my girlfriend again.. Like how we used to be.. I want her to commit.. But i feel she is keeping her options open and she wants to have fun partying and all. She dunno what she wants. She needs time to think. What am I now. What do I need to do? give up and move on? I need help.