My boyfriend really wants to go on an overseas trip, but I'm not that keen and I can't really afford it but he says it won't be the same without me so I said ok. I'm offering to pay my own airfare and expenses and he is happy to foot accomodation and meals along with his own expenses.
But of a sudden, our dates have come to a point where meals are reduced to us sharing food or he only has enough cash to pay for us to see a movie. Lately, its always the same. He'll ask what I want to do on the weekend, but quickly says "I don't have any money...only $xx". Its come to the point where I'm dreading our dates! I've even rejected him by saying I'm busy, just so I don't have to hear those words.
Am I being ungrateful or too sensitive? I just don't know how to approach this problem, but its been happening so often, I'm close to breaking off the trip (its happening end of the year, meaning there's a long way to go!)