Hi to all and thanks for any words or ideas.
Long story short: we connected instantly at age 9,didn't see each other for 7 years,then through terrible events were put together again. We've lived our lives very close together, no sexual intimacy-so very close yet so very far.
It's complicated,lets just say that.
We have gone through a few horrible events,I was always there for her-she for me. We drew closer and closer all the time.
Last year was another event that drew us even closer,to where we felt as one person. I would massage her for medical reasons,and I noticed our heart beats would synch up.Over this spring we just kept merging-as it were-and it sped up quickly to a point in time we both knew the time was right,I asked her to marry me and got married the next day.
After having many girlfriends,all I can say is time with her is 100 times better than all the others combined.
We cannot imagine life without each other.Fortunatly I retired very early,so we can spend as much time together-we can't stand to be apart.
I've always been into self hypnosis,meditation,mindfulness etc.
When we sleep all tangled up,our heart beats synchonize almost instantly,and stay so all night AFAIK.I've woken up numerous times,checked our pulses and they are synched,she has done the same with me.
I can understand breathing being in tune..but the pulse?
We don't even need to be touching,just somewhat close.I even bought heart monitors for us to see wth was going on.
I can walk into a room (moving so my pulse is up-she is relaxing so hers is down) and they will synch up within a few seconds. And that's not with the audible beeps so we could subconciously change to match the beeps.
I'll walk in..after 2-3 seconds-no contact-we hook up the monitors and we are synched.
We've done this 30 times,only twice we didn't synch up. She had a headache once,and the other time we don't know why not.
And I'm not talking close,I mean the two beeps sound like only one.
We even tried not looking at each other-our hearts synch up anyways.
I don't know if it's some subconcious thing,or quantum thing.
Any ideas?
Thanks in advance for any ideas folks,we are travelling right now, so it will be a couple days before we respond.
Tracy and Dave
edit: There's other things that happen between us,but maybe they won't be believed.