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    male confusion, Help!!

    I was seeing my neighbor for about 3 months. He was very sweet and I liked him alot. I was warned by some mutual friends to give it about 6 months before I got emotionally attached. I didnt listen and got emotionally attached anyways. We never really went out alot, we are both homebodies. So in a way I think it was just a prolonged booty call. I asked him to come over one night and he told me I was too nice, and that I deserved better than him. And I didnt know how to respond to that. So I didnt, and a few weeks ago I heard he was now seeing somebody else, but I was out one night and he is a door man at a bar, and I walked right past him didnt even look at him, and he text me "What you cant even say hi?" and I never responded.

    So I dont know if he was saying I was too nice and things like that because he didnt want to hurt my feelings and say there was somebody else? He told another one of our mutual friends that he feels like a dick and the last thing he wanted to do was hurt me. That I didnt deserve it and he didnt want to be another ass hole that I had been with. And he feels like shit that he let me go..So if he feels that way than why did he dump me??
    I know he was hurt by his ex girlfriend of a year, a month before he met me. She slept with 2 of his best friends and nobody told him about it until it somehow word got around to him and he doesnt trust women that much anymore since that.

    I still like him alot, and I havent been able to truely be myself like I was with him in a long time. Advice? Do I just let it go and wait? Or should I make an attempt next time I see him?

    I am also moving to a new apartment complex within the week, so I hope he notices me moving things out, or notices my car is no longer there and tries to contact me...

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    Keep ignoring him.

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