Should men really try ?

[Purple&Yellow]

Hey.

I had a friend come over from Germany as a student exchange type of thing.
The guy looks like a model. I mean seriously. He has a body of a Greek god.
According to the girls, he is 'hot'. So all the females in school adore him. I'm
not jealous ... But it made me wonder; if he made such a good impression,
could he do anything? So we messaged a non-sluty girl from school that
claimed she didn't like him as she has a boyfriend. We sent her a very
rude message, asking for a 'hand-job'. The reply was not very surprising.
"Yeah sure, but I would go way further than just a hand-job". The
continuation of the conversation was very expectable, and very similar to
the first reply.

So it made me wonder. Do men really have to try ? Do women just search
for a guy that looks like a model, even if he is a 'dick' ? It didn't seem to
matter if he is sensitive or not. So should I continue being me, or should
I just become one of those heartless 'dicks' ?

[searock]

How was that girl "non-slutty"?!

[Purple&Yellow]

I meant, she generally is very frigid. She would never talk about sex, she would always be very ... conservative.

[searock]

LOL, that doesn't mean anything. What one says and what one does are two very different things. Are you in high school?

[Purple&Yellow]

Nope, college. Plus, she did what she said.

[searock]

I was referring to this:

She would never talk about sex, she would always be very ... conservative.

Clearly that's just a facade. You've seen for yourself that she is as "slutty" as it gets. What normal woman would cheat on her boyfriend just like that?

[HeartIsAching]

LOL, that doesn't mean anything. What one says and what one does are two very different things. Are you in high school?

It's the quiet ones that surprise you... The jokes about the librarian once she takes her hair down aren't off the mark.

[RexyJ]

It may be easy to get a girl, if that is what she wants.

But, it takes a lot more to keep a girl