Date the guy with the big penis. Then find out if that's what makes a great relationship, or if he needs a solid personality too. Seriously, just pick one, go with it, and learn from the experience. I'm not trying to be trite here.
Seriously, if you just want good, bone-jarring sex, I'm not judging you. Date Mr. Big.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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