Undecided and Confused what to Do

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Hi Everyone,

I met this Guy some few months ago. We started to do a lot of things together and what normal couples do and became really close...He inspires me a lot. It is the first time I felt this way, but nothing is official between us, we BOTH decided to stay this way. A month ago I discovered he still communicates with his ''ex'' as he told me. It really doesn't concerns me a lot, he told me 'he was really dear to his ''ex'', his ex loves him and that he could not stay away from him. He assured me though that nothing is going on between them. We see each other a lot for several weeks. Lately, I discovered how he communicate to his ''ex'' ... which is still very sweet. Now we have this 10 day period break without seeing each other due to busy stuff but we still communicate. I begin to send him messages what exactly is going on with him and his ex. I cant help but think this way. Its obvious that he didn't want to respond.... Considering he was really busy in those time period, I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Just now, he confessed me everything. His ex just got back some days ago. They met. Spent some good time. They were indeed in a relationship all this time. But in a few days, they broke up. The girl is the one who initiated the break up. And what even saddens me is him telling me, they loved each other a lot but decided to be end their relationship. Then he starts being close to me again. I couldn't imagine he can be this insensitive.

I like him a lot, but all I can feel now is disappointment and hatred. I don't know if I even have to give him the chance to explain, I don't think I could ever trust whatever he will tell me. But he was dear to me and I care for him a lot.

How would I react initially after him saying these things. I want to be honest about how I felt in the same way that I still want to be polite, and not seem like chasing him or similar things like that. I want him to realize my worth without me trying.

I will appreciate your advices
Thanks a lot