Please Help If You Can

[pixxi2012]

Hi. I'm new here and I don't know if what I'm about to post should be in this section but here goes.

I've not had a period for seven months until last week 16th September. I've been to see a gynecologist who couldn't find anything wrong and not heard anything since 24th August. Am going to go chase this up but recently I've got with a guy and been having unprotected sex for about two months. When I started my period I told him about it and he said for me to go on some form of contraception which i don't mind as even though I would love to have a baby, it's just too soon in the relationship for kids I don't get why after two months of unprotected sex, all of a sudden hes so worried about protection. This was last Friday. Since then hes not once mentioned it. Whats going on? Has he had a change of heart? Can't talk to him as he's in Singapore on holiday until next week. I just need some advice.

Thanks

[vashti]

He told you to ue some contraception, which I would take to mean that he doesn't want to have a baby. Therefore, you should use protection. The pill would help regulate your period.

[Chris0516]

He told you to ue some contraception, which I would take to mean that he doesn't want to have a baby. Therefore, you should use protection. The pill would help regulate your period.

Pixxi, Both you n' him should use some protection. Not just you, and not just him.

[pixxi2012]

Hi guys.

He told me that just because he wants me to go on it now doesn't mean to say he doesn't want any kids later in life. He told me he wants a future with me and that when the time is right we will try but I dunno if this is all happening too fast talking about future of weather I'm panicking about nothing. Also he's very private about his past relationships and our relationship. He never properly asked me out so I dunno if we are actually bf/gf or were just seeing each other. Also he doesn't want to talk to his friends about us or introduce me to them or his family! What's going on there?

[InYourFACE]

I dont know but you are a woman. ( if you know what that mean)
So you know that you are the one that can get pregnant also.

So why do you open your legs for some dude you barely know,
and dont take charge of taking care of your own body?

You sleep with him , dont worry about pregnant, but now you say its to soon?
Girl you most have low self esteem or something.

If you know pregnancy comes from sex, you should know that you need to close your legs!

And you know him that "well" that you cant talk to him cause he is just on vacation??

whahahahahahahahhahahahahahahaa, you see he got his rounds for free on this vacation. now you are the stupid one worried !

And even thou you talk to him. its may make no since.
cause 2 mounts is to short for some one to start care for you especially if you are a girl that give him very fast your pussy

[InYourFACE]

I dont know but you are a woman. ( if you know what that mean)
So you know that you are the one that can get pregnant also.

So why do you open your legs for some dude you barely know,
and dont take charge of taking care of your own body?

You sleep with him , dont worry about pregnant, but now you say its to soon?
Girl you most have low self esteem or something.

If you know pregnancy comes from sex, you should know that you need to close your legs!

And you know him that "well" that you cant talk to him cause he is just on vacation??

whahahahahahahahhahahahahahahaa, you see he got his rounds for free on this vacation. now you are the stupid one worried !

And even thou you talk to him. its may make no since.
cause 2 mounts is to short for some one to start care for you especially if you are a girl that give him very fast your pussy

[pixxi2012]

I have known him for years it's just recently i've got with him!

[smackie9]

Don't just "settle" with him, because you want a BF. If your expectations are not being met and he refuses to be open with you, there will only be future conflict in your relationship. You shouldn't be talking about this to a bunch of strangers on the net, you should be talking to him about these things.