Ladies, did I get rejected?

[pretty boy swag]

I asked this girl out a several days ago over the phone. I said "I think we should meet up." She was like uhhh I gotta do this, and I gotta do that, school is starting etc. So, why don't I text you when I'm free.

I talked to her prior to this and all the things she says she is doing are true. I don't know exactly how busy she actually is though.

So, I just want to know if I got rejected or should I actually be expecting a text from her or hear from her? Maybe it's just her nice way of rejecting me?

If I don't hear from her for a while should I text/call her?

Or if I don't ever hear from her should I just give up?

[TheCafeTerrace]

Yep, you got rejected. I think you know this already, but it's always tempting to hold onto hope. Move on, find someone new - this is a lost cause.

[WynnieJames]

I agree, leave her alone--she's not interested. People make time for what (and whom) they want to make time for.

[MilleniumFalcon]

I think the telling thing is that she said SHE will contact you when she is 'ready'. If it was the other way around and she asked you to text her/call her at a certain point in the future (say a few weeks after she's busy) and said she will be expecting the contact then, then I think it would be a different scenario. I think its silly to always assume a woman isn't interested if she says "I cant right now", because in my experience some people genuinely have more important things to deal with like economic, social, health or family issues, but if she just muddled together a few random excuses that were general, and didn't tell YOU to contact her at a certain point, then she is probably just "kindly" rejecting you. A note to women - this isn't kind, its rude. Say what you mean and mean what you say.