Stunning girl but I bailed out. Help?

[MrT123]

I'm 25 and was dating this girl recently. I think shes gorgeous and shes a really lovely girl. Things were going well for the first 2 months or so. I've been single for over 3 years and not really been that fussed about having a girlfriend. My mates say I'm too picky and to be honest, I'm so used to being independent and maybe I have issues with commitment because its been such a long time. This girl started to pick up on it and I eventually told her I'm wary of commitment. She said she was happy to take it slow as its been a while for her aswell. I said I was fine with that. The problems started after this.The problem is in the sack, I just couldn't last long with her. She is so sexy and I told her. I tried to last but just couldn't and she was so patient with it. I was staying at her place because I liked spending time with her but even she didn't initiate anything sometimes and I had the issue mentioned above.
I kept seeing her as I was still interested but could tell we weren't as comfortable with eachother as we had been before. She started to back off a bit more and I kind of noticed was a bit offish with me over text at times, but mostly she was lovely. I probably got a bit defensive too and was out of order when I just didn't show up at her place one time because she hadn't let me know if she was definitely free. This upset her and I did apologise. It didn't really get a lot better after all this and I didn't know what to do or say so I backed off and when she eventually asked me if it was over, I told her that I don't think we had any chemistry. She was disappointed in what I said and told me that she wanted to have more fun and go out more, then maybe it would be different. Am I running away from my problem or did it just fizzle out, despite her being gorgeous and a lovely girl. I don't even know myself. I still think shes lovely but convinced myself it won't work....I'm wondering if I'm just not ready to face it all. Embarassing to admit as a bloke! Be honest lads. Can't put logic on it??

[smackie9]

This girl likes you and you are acting like damn twit. There are things you can do to fix this. Most guys reccomend rippin one off before hand (pardon the pun). Secondly, wear thicker condoms....see if that works. if not you can go to a sex shop or order on line stuff to numb your penis. You put it on about a half hour before use. once it starts to wear off, put on a condom and go. If you really want to get into it, study kuma sutra or tantra sex. There are breathing exercises they teach to control orgasm.

So get off your silly ass and make this work.

[steviej]

Sounds like you're throwing away a good thing because you're dealing with a slight problem in a very immature way! Wobble your head, stop worrying so much.

[OriginalWogBoy]

Purchase a FleshLight to practice on, several of my mates purchased these in college to enhance their sexual endurance so to speak, as well as the fact of them being horny teenagers

[TheCafeTerrace]

Get a cockring.