Is this a relationship yet?

[emmafoth]

Ive known this guy for awhile now and recently we have been getting closer. I stayed at his last night and we watched a film then cuddled in his bed. We had our first kiss along with alllot more throughout the night and morning. We also held hands most of the night and fell asleep cuddling. This morning we kissed goodbye. Every ones asking me if we are official yet but i have no idea and don't know how to ask him.
Does it seem like we are to you? and should i ask him if we are or leave it until the next time i see him and see how it goes?

[chrisv24]

I would say leave it till the next time and see how it goes. If the same thing happens again then you know that you are progressing and you can simply ask him if he wants to take the next step

[Boisdevie]

Every ones asking me if we are official yet but i have no idea and don't know how to ask him.

Who gives a shit what everyone is asking. None of their ****ing business. As for your relationship with him sometimes you don't even need the 'are you my boyfriend/girlfriend' conversation - it's just understood. If you think it's not understodd then it's time to have the conversation.

[bulrush]

You're not official until you talk about being official. Otherwise, he has an "out" to say it was just a casual thing. If you two didn't agree to be exclusive, you are not exclusive and he has the right to see other people. It's best to talk about these things directly.