Relationship

[Salyers1990]

I have a boyfriend that i have been with for almost 9 months now. I love him but i dont feel like im happy with him anymore. Ive tried to make things different and do different things to spice things up but its not working. Iet this guy and i started to like him. This is the kind of guy ive always dreamed about being with. Im stuck in a hole and i need help so please any advice will be appreciated and what would u do if u were in my situation. I cant keep going like thos cus it breaks my heart by the day.

[VincenzoG91]

Break up first before you start seeing someone else. Otherwise, you're a cheater.

[Salyers1990]

I dont believe in cheating. And i am no cheater. I didnt say i was gonna date the guy but i just like him but tjere is a possibility. Idk what to do.

[sasilovesyou]

people may suggest!!! but in the end what will u do is upto u only!!! just be ur own master.

[lylufy]

You need to break up him right now. Because, your bad mood now will kill your relationship more.
The passion is one of the most important in love, whenever you can not find it, your love did die.
Women are sensitive, and they can feel obvious and immediate that dead.
I think there is only one way solve your problem : get out your love !

[Salyers1990]

This is so hard

[VincenzoG91]

I get the impression that you're young. You don't know what you want yet, so you are going to fumble through relationships and create drama until you figure out what you stand for and grow up. So it probably doesn't matter what you do with these guys, you probably won't be involved with either of them a year from now anyway. Go ahead and follow your heart. Don't be afraid to make mistakes and learn from the experiences.

[Salyers1990]

I am 22 years old. I have no drama let alone tolerate it. I may be young but age is just a number when it comes to maturity. I raised my youngest brother starting at the age of 11 therefore ive had to grow up fast. I do know what i want on the category of love bit im just confused caise im stuck between to guys that absolutely stun me. Im not sure that im happy anymore. But then again im not sure that im not just having a moment either. Idk i just want to know if there is anybody out there that has had this happen to them and what decision or choice did they make. If at all what did they think and what did ppl tell them???

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Break up with your boyfriend. You said you're not happy with him, so right now you're being selfish by wasting his time. You are stringing your boyfriend along right now. Stop being a bitch.

[Maple1714]

Break up with your boyfriend..it's not really that hard. Tell him your feelings have changed and be done with it. You are not having a moment...you're 22...you gotta a lot of dating to do! You will continue to meet new guys that interest you...maybe be single for a while? Everyone goes through this stuff...don't listen to anyone else just do exactly what you want and what will make you happy in this moment. You have to be a little bit selfish in these types of situation. Yes, your BF will be hurt...but he will survive.

[bcgirl]

Lol...it's only been 9 months and u r already complaining.... U r still young and naive about love. U will learn. Dump him because it will not get any better, but only worse u two r just plain incompatible.