Im going with the whole if they dont make enough effort then theyre obviously not interested as I have in the past and its backfired.
He already made the effort. He friended you on FB and he sent you pics. The ball is in your court. If you don't show interest now it's over, he'll move on.
Here's a wacky idea. Given it's the 21st century and everything. Why not make an effort if YOU are interested. Or are you stuck in the past and think it's the mans job to do the pursuing?
Boisdevie, I know what you mean. I dislike women stuck in the 1950s. The sad fact is, that many cultures are still stuck in the 1800s. It is not realistic to expect the whole world to advance at the same rate. Didn't you notice her flag is not even in the G8? [url]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G8[/url]
Last edited by bulrush; 25-10-12 at 08:03 PM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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