What can I do? think I still love him, any advice?

[bambi]

About a year ago I was casually seeing this man that I met through work.

It turned ot to be more than cassual as we were talking every day on the phone and it became quite an emotiona relationship even though we did not see each other often due to distance.

Some people in work found out and he got very nervous abot it, said he could not see me anymore because of the role he holds in work, obviously I was devastated he was wonderful and I think I may have fallen in love with him.

It has been 10 months since we last seen eachother but we still talk every week without fail, and he is still very prtective of me and always helps me out.

Like I said it has been some time now and I still think about him every single day.

What can I do?

[smackie9]

Find another job so there is no conflict of interest.

[bambi]

Tht would probably solve the prblem,
But I love my job and to be honest it is the only one I have had that I feel settled in.
Plus he could end up not bothering and then I will have lost my job and my man (sort of)

[smackie9]

Well then you just answered your question......you are best to just move on.

[smackie9]

Tip: never invest yourself in a uncertain relationship. Be strong and move on.

[bambi]

I probably should, he is a bit older than me and we did have problems in he begining.
He is a very good friend though and I would miss him if I did not talk to him.

To move on would mean cut him from my life,

[Boisdevie]

To move on would mean cut him from my life,

Exactly stop pissing about and do it.