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I have been meeting a guy for 2 weeks, and trust me, i'm a very traditional girl about sex business. But...
The first date, we went for dinner and had nice chats, he was a really funny and good looking guy! He often jokes around, and he kept asking what i normally do on weekends and i said that my Working Roster is not stable so i won't be sure if i will have weekend days off. After we had finished dinner, he asked me to go for a coffee but we ended up getting home cause i did not know a nice coffee shop around there...
The second time, i was jokingly said that he can come to my company to collect me. And he Came really, waited for me to finish then we went out, we went for ice cream and he suggested to change to a coffee shop with quiet environment and nice Lounge, he looked at me a lot and stuff, we had fun again. But he had to leave at 9Pm, as he said he was meeting his friends for dinner.
The third time we were talking on facebook and i said i was free in the office alone, and suggested if he wanted to come for some talk. So, he said yes and came straight away... We had a brief talk then he left cause he saw me being Busy with work and Co-workers around.
He would rarely text me, like he will pop up from yahoo or facebook and will say hi or i will say hi... The 3rd time we met which was last night, he took me to dinner. After that he asked me to drive, and he showed me the way to his home... I was hesitate to get in, but i was curious to see his Life anyway. He ended up kissing me and... finally we had sex... And he asked me to sleep over at his Place. Because it was late, so i agreed to sleep there.
He told me that he will go on a trip today which i saw his friends posted on facebook already. And in the morning, i felt a bit of regreted that i Gave in, because i have only had sex with my Long Term relationship, and i tried to keep myself for 2 years, and i'm being Easy Now? I think it's because i liked him A Lot, i'm picky and i promise that it's not Easy to trick me to sex at all. So now, i'm feeling worried about his attention, he tried to push me to have sex last night, which was why it happenned.
I'm a bit worried as if he's the kind to look for one night stand or he will want to get to know me better, how long should i wait until he contacts to know if he's serious or just want to Sleep with me? He kept kissing and hugging me after sex last night, and i felt like he likes me not just for that, but i start to feel panic when i don't hear from him. Is it a turn off to guy to have sex early like this? Please help...