hello,
let me put you in context. I'm a 43 year old woman dating a 34 year old guy. we've been together for a year and 3 months. We get along great and we respect each other enormously.
I've been divorced for 4 years, I created a facebook profile 4 years ago. I only go about once a week. but i never post comments or say what I'm doing I don't really like it. I only have 39 friends, which are mostly friends and family, I don't add friends request if I don't know the people. I get a lot of male request that I ignore. My question is this. my bf has 239 friends, a lot which are female, and I should say younger also and they are very beautiful and sexy i should say. here is my problem, I noticed that my bf has posted a comment on a girls picture, she's in a blouse with her big boobs kinda exposed and you can see her bras a bit. he gave it a thumbs up. I told him about it and said that I was kinda hurt and sick to my stomach from seeing that. that it's not something that I would do to him and I asked him why did he do that and why does he seem to add girls from all over the world on his facebook if they don't mean anything. I told him that since I've been with him that I don't add any guys to my fb and I don't chat with any of them either out of respect and out of love, including the fact that I have better things to do than spend my time on fb. He said he didn't do anything wrong, and that it doesnt mean anything he doesn't even talk to any of them. So I don't understand the reason to add them if they don't mean anything. I asked him what it was he was looking for by adding these girls. He said nothing and that he doesn'tl care about it, he said I will delete my fb if you want I don't care. But I don't want him to do that. I want your opinion on this, fb and msn was not a part of my life and didn't exist when I was young. I know I'm sensitive but do you think I'm making to much of this situation?
Thanks