I asked her out, but I'm still worried....

[Sickem123]

Me and this girl are both in high school and we don't have any classes together. We kind of had our ups and downs and she kind of did a few bitch like things, but for some reason i still like her :/. She's just a confusing girl and it's a very long story. I sensed that she's using me, but i wouldn't really call it as "using", plus i just can't see her doing that ha. I'm still not sure if she's still interested in me or what, but to the main thing... I just decided to ask her out and see how it turns out. I texted her asking where she was coming from after school so i can talk to her because i told her i need to ask you something, and it just didn't seem to work... Not sure if she was shy to talk to me or nervous or what, but she texted me, "Just telllllllllllll me", so i said, "I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime next weekend?". (Yes, asking someone out over text is lame... but i had to lol). 10-20 minutes later she replied, "Sure, Like where thoo". For some reason i feel like that "sure" is like a "sure w/e..." you know. I honestly thought it would be like a "okayyy" or something haha. I'm probably over thinking this... We're supposed to go this weekend, let's just hope she doesn't forget :/. Thing is, I'm not a really big texter, and honestly i don't know what to talk about. It's easier to talk in person than call/text for me... She basically never texts me also. We basically never talk in school, but we do have lunch period together and whenever she walks past me she get's my attention by hitting me or pushing me a lil, you know haha. We've hung out more than a few times outside of school and with a couple of her friends and i do talk to her then. Our communication in school/text is basically zero which worries me cuz i feel like she might lose interest you know. I want to text her, but idk what to talk about since we don't have any classes together and such... Like texting her "Hey, whats up" usually never goes anywhere and the convo ends fast. Either way i heard her say she's not much of a texter either.

If you want the full story, i can PM you it, cuz i don't want it public lol. It's quite interesting and i could use some advice on the whole situation. I'm trying not to give up! I like her a lot!

[Love'sReject]

Lol, you're her bitch. If you have any respect for yourself and some balls, this girl HARDLY sounds worth pursuing already.

[Sickem123]

Lol, you're her bitch. If you have any respect for yourself and some balls, this girl HARDLY sounds worth pursuing already.

Describe "you're her bitch" please. I don't see myself following her everywhere and doing what ever she says.

[Love'sReject]

If a girl does bitchy things, call her out on it. Indifference is just being an emotional sponge, especially when she hits you; shows a lack of spine and a willingness to absorb whatever her problems are (even if it's in a "joking" way; common sense dictates that somebody doesn't hit another even casually if they're barely a step above acquaintances).

You didn't stick to your guns when you told her you wanted to ask her in person and instead caved in; sure, she still said yeah but you've ruined your own personal allure by being a pushover.

I'm willing to bet her "I'm not much of a texter" line is just so you don't text her for a conversation. I really think she's stringing you along.


P.S.: Is she hot?

[searock]

Ignore Love'sReject, it's a troll.

I'm a girl, and I think you should stop worrying. It's easy to misinterpret voice tone via text, which is why you read her "sure" as an "okayyy", rather than a "sure, I'm all for it!". The important part is that she agreed to go out with you. As for what to talk about via text - it doesn't have to be something school related... for example, if you hear a song that you like, you could text her something like "hey do you know this song (name of the song)? It reminds me of you :-)"... also, instead of just asking her what's up, you might want to first tell her what you are doing and how you feel about it, then say "what about you?". Just don't worry, in any case don't show her that you are worried - it will be fine :-)!

[Love'sReject]

Ignore searock; he/she/in between is jelly.

Look, fact is; she treats you with no respect and he that associates and especially tries DATING those who have no respect for him does not respect himself and is thus not worthy of anyone else's respect.

[Sickem123]

If a girl does bitchy things, call her out on it. Indifference is just being an emotional sponge, especially when she hits you; shows a lack of spine and a willingness to absorb whatever her problems are (even if it's in a "joking" way; common sense dictates that somebody doesn't hit another even casually if they're barely a step above acquaintances).

You didn't stick to your guns when you told her you wanted to ask her in person and instead caved in; sure, she still said yeah but you've ruined your own personal allure by being a pushover.

I'm willing to bet her "I'm not much of a texter" line is just so you don't text her for a conversation. I really think she's stringing you along.


P.S.: Is she hot?

She's not hot, but she is good-looking in my eyes. I like her personality more than her looks lol. She doesn't hit me as hard as she can... I find it kinda cute that she does this shit to me, and i like it lol. By the way i over heard that while she was talking to her friends, she didn't tell me personally that she's not a big texter.

And thank you Searock for your input.