Hello,
I am hoping some one could give me some much needed advice.
I started seeing this girl about 3 weeks ago and I really like her. The problem is am feel like I am trying too hard to please her and that by doing it, it is pushing her away. We both came from previous relationships were we got cheated on so we agreed to take things slowly.
I guess I am struggling to find that limit between trying too hard and not trying hard enough. We text every day but I feel that I am texting her too many times and that she finds this to clingy.
I came from a relationship where I couldn't trust my ex g/f. She cheated on me several times to get back at me over silly little things like working long hours and being tired when I got home. I couldn't leave her on a night out because she would be chatting someone up or getting drunk and kissing someone.
I know I have trust issues which I am trying to banish but they seem to be haunting me. I think the trust issues go hand in hand with trying to hard.
I really want us to work out but if I keep going the way I am going there won't be an us. Can anyone give me some advice because me head is a little screwed up at the moment. I just hope it ain't too late to save us.
Any advice is much appreciated. Thank you.