Okay well I'm new obviously and I really don't know how to start this off. Well here goes...... I joined on here to see if I could find some sage advise on love and what to expect.....I have been treated badly in the past...and the same pattern keeps on happening again and again except here recently the guys have been getting more for lack of a better work.....ugly...not in the physical way but in the personality and how they treat people. I just guess my biggest question is how do I get out of this awful rut and into a more open mind set?