He's leaving and I don't want him to!

[owleyes]

So, I've been spending time with one of the most amazing men I've ever met. We have so much in common, he's fun, easy to talk to, open, honest and damn sexy! One of the first things he said to me was he hates playing mind games; if he want to text me, he'll text me, even if society says it's too soon. I love that in him. He's so honest and I respect that.
However, he has just finished uni and is applying for jobs country wide. He said he loves spending time with me and really likes me but he doesn't want things to go on much further because he doesn't want (what could be) our relationship to influence his decision about his career. I completely understand that and absolutely agree with him, but he is the closest I've ever had to a boyfriend and we connect on a level that I've never had with someone before. I don't want this to end. He's even said if we had met last year there would be no question whether he'd be with me or not, it's just bad timing.
I'm so not the kind of girl to beg or guilt him into staying but I feel like this is something to fight for. He keeps saying he wishes I was a bitch about it all so it was easier for him. But I can't be.
I dont know what to do! Please help...

[Sixpacj]

I personally have never understood the "timing" argument, I believe you want to be with someone or not.... Or maybe I am just needy and desperate.... ;-) (I probably am)...

He's fresh out of uni? He is like what? 24? 25? And choosing a career at this stage is really that important? Sorry, but having read your post my conclusion is he doesn't want to be with you.

Your best bet is let him be, if he concludes he wants you, good, if not, I don't think there is much you can do about it...

[owleyes]

Yeah, I think all I can do is take it as it comes. Whatever the outcome, I guess I'll cope. Thank you.

[Negan]

From what i can see, he doesn't want to be with you, but he is a nice guy so he probably won't spill it out.
And let's be honest, getting a job, starting a career after graduating an university is more important than having a relationship. You two can always be together after he has a stable job, money and secure future.
Wouldn't you agree?

[zaccarus]

Unfortunately it looks like you're going to have to let him go, and to be honest if he is the closest thing that you have had to a boyfriend then it may be for the best as may be you should meet other people. Letting go of someone that you clearly feel strongly about isn't going to be a smooth ride so stock up on kleenex and make sure you've got your friends around!