Hi - thanks for reading this I am in need of some advice here to know if I am over reacting to my situation.
I have been dating this guy for 3 months - all is great when we are together and go out/in etc
I just get the feeling that he 'just isnt into me' spose I should just go with my gut but have fallen for him and dont want to quit before I see how things go over a longer time?!
He will reply when I send a text sometimes fairly quickly, other times, hours later. We are both busy people I get that but ...
He doesnt ever ring me.... so I dont ring him to bother him.
Sometimes I drop into his work, which is an appropriate situation to do so and have a cup of tea with him, he is always pleased to see me, gives me a kiss etc.....
He will cook for me and always lights a candle on the table so there is signs of romance !
We have been away together for a weekend and it was fabulous to spend time together - all good
Christmas ? We will have been together for over 4 months by then, he tells me that he is going to his parents for a family Christmas 'thats how it is, I cant get out of it'. No further discusson on the subject! I have met his parents and got on great, am I out of order by wondering why he wont invite me to spend Christams with him and his family? He knows that I have no one to spend the festive period with and will be at home with the tv whilst he is having Christmas dinner.....and staying over night there....so when do we have exchange of presents etc?
He says that his previous gf's have not understood that he doesnt need to ring them and text or reply all the time and that he needs his space ( like we all do ) but where does this become disinterest or merely not hounding someone ?
He also said that he is usually the one in a relationship that has to ask for sex as he has a high sex drive - so do I but its been over 2 weeks now since we were together like that and it is driving me nuts ! We have spent nights together but just says he is tired ( he genuinely is ! ) but ..... again there is the but !
So - am I over reacting here or do I need to give him a wide berth and get on with my life ?
Oh we have a weekend away booked ( a flight to catch and hotel for a concert ) he has not even offered to go halves with paying for all this .....
As I write this I feel that I am merely telling the 'bad' things..... well, maybe just what is annoying and confusing me !