I can play women, but I want a real connection

[Albytoy]

I go to clubs, I go to bars, I meet women and I flirt with them. But, this is not what I want anymore. What I want is to meet someone special and actually create a real connection. I’m past the phase of my life of superficial connections. I need something more. What do I do? WHERE DO I START? Can I meet quality women in bars/clubs?
I realize that I spent so much time flirting and playing with as many people as possible that I don't even remember how to meet "normal" women and have a normal relationship/interaction.
Thanks!

[Bridge]

Hi, Albytoy. It's very unlikely that you'll meet any "quality" women in bars or clubs, as most of those types are party girls.

But surely, you have some interests and activities outside of going to bars and clubbing? If so, I'd recommend you try to approach women in any social setting besides bars/clubs. You could try actual dating events, such as speed dating events, and see who you can meet there - those types of things are composed primarily of people who are seeking serious relationships, so you'll be on the same page as everyone else there.

Good luck.

[searock]

Didn't you post this already?

[searock]

Yes you did, here: http://www.loveforum.net/threads/73499-I-can-play-women-but-I-want-a-real-connection

[Albytoy]

Sorry I couldn't find my topic back... logged with my brother's account stupid

[Love'sReject]

Once again, you don't deserve it.