Poppy, although this may be one of the hardest decisions you have to make... Divorce is never easy. I have a friend who lost her husband months after marriage, they were 100% in love when he accidentally past. She had no choice. You do! Think of life as a gift. You don't have to be in misery just because "it doesn't feel like the right time". Life doesn't wait for nobody, time doesn't stop. The more time you give up, the older you will get, the older your children will get, the more difficult it will be to let go. I also know a 60+ woman in a 30 yr unhappy marriage. He has a mistress and she hates him but chooses not to leave because of 30 yrs and grand kids. You can one day wake up to 30 yrs of unhappily marriage and feel you are too over the hill to try for divorce then.