Some Advice?

[Devagio]

So confused. I've been told everything and don't know what is real or not. Could I get some explinations to these statements?

1. Being athletic is intimidating.
2. Good looks are a turn off.
3. Creativity is viewed as pushy
4. If you are adaptive or accomodating you lose your relationship.
5. Old fashion is dead. (Opening doors, flowers ect.)

I'm 19. I've had relationships. I was told that I was great as a boyfriend by many people I would like actual answers on if I'm the problem or something else. I really want to crack this puzzle.

Thanks in advance!

[Wakeup]

1. Wrong
2. Wrong
3. Wrong
4. Wrong
5. Wrong

Right-oh, off ya go then.

[eddiedelgado]

I think you are all wrong. From point 1 til 5 everything is what every girl wants. And the few who dont, just forget them and search another one which appriciates your tasks.

[Fruitsss]

so this is th day of making topics about how good u are? dammit so boriing and stupid.

anyway, u can be all of that in a wrong way. so maybe your way of being it is to fake and overreacted.
or what u call white is off white in other peoples eyes.like good looks.

a good help will be read books about woman so u can understand them better, and listing to what they tell u.
like if a girl tells u she dont like flowers, its stupid of u to bring her flowers. just cause u want to be old fashioned.

[Fruitsss]

so dont think every woman is the same or like the same things.
some all like in general. but some stuff is not everybody's taste,values etc.
so thats why u need to listing and get to know the one person u r dating

[melanie_m]

Absolutely agree with Fruitsss. Be specific: maybe exactly your understanding of being athletic/good looking/old-fashion is wrong Try talking to the girls you like and see)

[Boisdevie]

Perhaps he's athletic and good looking but still a total cunt in other respects? Perhaps he's got a tiddly small dick?

[Wakeup]

"tiddly" small ~ lolzzz