So when we finally talked about it she opens up to me she tells me that she has an affair since a couple of month and she did not use protection and that is why she did not want to have sex with me, because she was indeed afraid she could pass something over to me.
Things were pretty clear then I could leave easily, for her it was a bigger deal..but again, bc's thoughts are absolutely real and realistic....no need to drink though
I speak through experience. I was that girl who pretended to be single on pof and lure guys and slept with them when I was mad at my bf or whatever. These guys on pof are strangers and who knows what type of diseases each one was carrying. Although I had protected sex, you still can't be 100% so I would withhold sex Fromm bf until the Pap smear came out negative.