So, actually I think I'm into some long distance shit...Sorry for saying shit but don't know how to call it.
I started to date this guy, he doesn't live in my city/country, so we constantly speak throught fancy tehcnology gadgets. Since we met 2nd time, which was 10 days ago (it was really nice). He told he likes me bla bla bla and, he also showed me that by his actions. He will come to visit me in 2 months for a couple of weeks.
The problem is that he is so busy, stressed and what is killing me is this:
1. Stupid online chats, instant messaging etc... I hate to type, I want to talk he can't skype or call me because he is always busy.
2. He is working onto starting up his new business, whenever I ask him he says he is busy. He also says he is stressed out, bla bla bla. So I back off and give him his space.
3. We communicate almost everyday, I initate it mostly, but its instant messaging, he calls me love, baby and all of those stuff (i''m not romantic when i instant message, i'm mostly cold, i can't change it). What ever I type to him he tries to reply me as soon as possible. Its not like he is ignoring me, but as I said I back off and I let him do his stuff if he says he is at work.
I am seriously confused. Am I histerical over nothing and making a big deal out of it, its only couple of days since we didn't see each other. I didn't also mentioned the time zone difference, so its hard to catch up sometimes at right time
I am the one who is trying this to work. I also want to chill myself and give him his space to do his stuff if he is busy as he is saying. I don't want to molest him whenever he is online, but again why does he come online if he claims he is so busy. I am seriously thinking of backing off cold feet for a couple of days untill next week. I told him also that I have tons of work to do and that I'm not in town this weekend.
I think I need to let him contact me first and give him some space to miss me, right?