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    kind of feel bad and excited at the same time.

    I feel kind of bad and yet excited at the same time. My girlfriend got accepted to a bachelors program. We are currently in an associates program right now. I'm happy and excited for her because she is my girlfriend. She just got home from my house and checked her email. I was the first one she texted and let me know that she got accepted. The reason why I'm feeling bad is because she's a woman in the relationship. I guess I know what it like now to make less than a woman in the relationship. I guess I'm also a little insecure because I feel as though she could do much better than me. She makes me happy and is a very down to earth person. I do know that a lot of guys hit on her. She's beautiful, smart, funny, caring, nice. Overall a good person. Is it normal to feel this way. I think it's because I'm worried that I might lose her if she got so much going on.

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    I get what you mean bro. You just have to trust her. Don't ever doubt yourself though, those insecurities will just turn her off. If you feel she is committed than things will work out. You really need to lose that grip you have on her though because if the time ever comes when she leaves your life you need to be prepared before hand. Just live for yourself bro and let her be apart of that. Don't let yourself become apart of her world or depend on her in a sense, that is just impractical and will only devastate you if she ever leaves. She is human and capable of anything just like you are. Overcoming insecurities and being dependent upon only yourself, especially in the field of making yourself happy, to me is the best possible way you can protect yourself yet at the same time keep your lady around and keep things in your relationship moving forward.

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    Another bro^ sweet.

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