nomas... precisely, when you live for the moment, you can't always depends on someone to bail you out of your situation. sure your friends will be there to help you in any way they can, but in the end, it's all about yourself and the choices that you wish to make. i personally learn things to hard way so i'm always having to deal with these problems that i have created for myself, yet this is the best way that i learn. trial and error.
life itself is not clear which is why the world has so many problems. basically gray would be al good description of how people think. i'm not saying that everyone should live for the moment, it's just a way that i would like to live. i present you with an option, but it's up to you if you choose to live this way.
raverboy
...this is just my perspective on the situation...