You have obviously never heard the quote "If you cannot be with someone at their worst, what makes you think you deserve them at their best?"
She wants to open her own bakery and become a pastry chef. That is what she wants. She is just all over the place with me because of her flawed view of relationships. What advice do you give a person like that? Even if it is not for my sake, at least for hers or some poor guy she gets with in the future.