What is he thinking??

[lovecrazy]

I was with a guy for 6 months who before I met him was seperated from his wife for 2 years and has a 5 year old son. They are going through courts for child custody and division of assets which is why the divorce has yet to be finalized. I was very insecure about our relationship even though I knew he didn't love his wife anymore but the fact that the seperation was her idea always made me think twice. One day I told him I was afraid our relationship was never going to go any further and he assured me that as soon as his divorce was finalized that things would get better and the next thing I knew he was breaking up with me because apparently I "deserve better" I told him he was all I wanted and that I would wait my whole life for him if I had to but he still thought we should break up. He started to ignore me and turn away when he saw me which really bothered me because we broke up on good terms, not because we had a fight but because of his never ending problems. One day I told him that I wanted him to stop acting the way he was and he told me he was doing it for my own good because he knew It hurt me to be close to him but not with him and that he felt the same way. Of course he was right but I told him he was wrong because I wanted to see more of him so he started to say hi when he saw me and one day after 10months he told me "we'll see what happens when all this is over" what does that mean? what is he thinking? he know that he started seeing someone else after me but it did not last more than a week. Does he still love me? I still haven't moved on and I still cry every night.

[basilandthyme]

Lovecrazy, I can't see that he still loves you. I think he found the you and he weren't compatible and so he moved on. I'm sorry I can't offer you any hope.

[lovecrazy]

Lovecrazy, I can't see that he still loves you. I think he found the you and he weren't compatible and so he moved on. I'm sorry I can't offer you any hope.

Me asking him to stop ignoring me was months ago it was right after our brakeup. And our minimal conversations was only when we passed by each other. HE decided to call me after 10 months and say "we'll see what happenens after all this is over" I never asked him if we were going to get back together. That's why I'm confused.

[pcmaster]

Stop crying your heart out, no one hears you when you do that. Go to nightclubs and get wild it will help A LOT. You have rights to do anything you want, feel good and be happy. Live and be active - thats why you crying because you live in false reality that consists of memories. From selfexpierience going out and thinking positive helps. Dont miss a thing !