Shy Love

[dnbElectrixx]

I am a very shy guy when it comes to love, and I probably wont tell the one I love I like her for about a year two. Due to my shyness, I want to do very small things that could hopefully get my crush to like me. However, because she's my crush and not my average female friend (though, we are friends at e moment), I can't seem to be able to ask her questions such as her interests, etc. We are normal friends, we talk every day (in class), and we have minor conversations at out lockers at dismissal. I am afraid, though, that doing these small things will just end up getting myself thrown into the friendzone, is this what would happen if I wait too long?

The questions summarized:

What small things could I do for my crush to get her to begin to like me, slowly?
How could I start a conversation on how to ask her for interests and information?
If I wait too long doing small things, would I end up in the friendzone?

[Jeany]

do you feel that she kinda like you? or she see you as friend? If you think that you have a chance just tell her straight, what if she likes you too? and if not just show her that you are sincere and you really like her, exert some efforts.

[basilandthyme]

dnbElectrixx, this isn't about being shy in love.....this is about not knowing how to have a conversation with a friend.

You say that you are and she are friends, but real friends show interest in the other person's life. They casually talk about stuff. Important stuff, random stuff, weirds stuff. But it's all talking and sharing. This is nothing to do with love - it's friendship 101.

Start working on simple things such as "how was your weekend?" If she says "nice" then follow up with "what did you do?"

[dnbElectrixx]

It looks like we are friends. We usually talk in class, help each other with work, but it seems odd that we don't know anything about her. I only know one thing about her, and it's one of her main interests, but that's anout it.