Originally Posted by
dickriculous
Friends with benefits is a mutual agreement which means nobody is getting used. If one person leads the other on to think it will develop into a relationship when it won't, or if the other person leads you on to think you're getting sex no strings attached but is actually planning to try and ensnare you in a relationship you don't want, THATS using someone.
There are any number of valid reasons not to want commitment at certain points in your life, or ever if that's what floats your boat. It's not our place to tell everyone that they must conform to our preconceptions of how a relationship should be. These points in your life are what friends with benefits is for, you get your gratification with no strings attached.
If FWB isn't for you than it isn't for you but let's not make it out to be something it's not.