I was just wondering, do guys do the whole "maybe if I don't contact her for a while she'll miss me and try to talk to me" or is that a girl thing?
My ex broke up with me like 3 weeks ago. Not long after that, he was contacting me every so often saying he still liked me, and missed me, and then finally asked if he "could please be with me again" then when I reminded him that he asked for some time alone to figure out the issues he was having, he never replied and hasn't talked to me since (only a week, so not horrible). I'm not sure whether to take that as he gave up and doesn't care all that much if we get back together, or if he just wants me to make a move. Or just feels awkward.
Each time we've talked since the break up, it's been him saying something like "i still like you" and me responding with something like "ok, but we should wait to talk about it until you're ready to be in a relationship".
Like I said, he asked if he could be with me again about a week ago, and I said we should talk when he's done sorting things out. But he never responded to that, and I'm not sure if I should try to contact him now or what. Seeing as how he asked for a month and it was only two weeks when he asked to get back together, I didn't take it too seriously. Should I have? Is it at all likely he's doing the same thing I have been, waiting for a sign that he wants to talk? Or is that not something guys do? :/