Okay, I am 16, and the girl is in the year below; 15.
I have been talking to her and meeting her for maybe 2 years at school, but she continually goes on streaks of ignoring me, then suddenly wants me back and send messages saying she wished I was there. Her parents recently divorced and she was in Hospital for a heart disease, so I can understand her being unhappy, but then about a month or two ago we argued on bbm over something trivial, and she ignores me... I got fed up and deleted her in a spur of the moment, and am not sure if it is worth asking a friends of hers to re-add her and try and talk to her. She is in the year below so I don't have any lessons with her, so to talk to her and organize something with her means I have to use the phone. Something to throw in there, her dad really likes me and we get on well, and apparently in a conversation about who she was going to marry, they were joking around and he was adamant it would be me. I know they were joking but it is surely something that he would say that to her? I cannot stop thinking about her every minute of the day, but I don't want to just get pushed away again.
Thanks