Yeah sure, in real life you pass off as just a regular guy, that's why you don't have friends or a girlfriend...
You should re-read Wakeup's post:
Get it? You need to stop expecting things/people other than YOURSELF to make yourself happy. Make your own happiness.1. You have to love yourself before anyone else will be able to love you.
2. You need to be happy in your own skin and stop thinking that someone else will make you happy. If you pin all your expectations of happiness on someone else, then you'll be fkd royally and for a much longer period of time if the relationship tanks and they should leave you.