I promised myself not to get dragged into this thread. Hopefully thegaymod will delete all the bigotry and let vash's thread get back to normality.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
Well, half of it gets lopped off at birth, so it's not their fault. lol
I go away for a day and come back to a 4-page religious derailmentI know this all started with a new member who probably doesn't know the rules, but religious and political posting should be kept to a minimum (minimum as in 0).
Vash, this is your thread, do you want it cleaned up, or leave as is? No one reported any posts here so I'm just going to leave it unless asked otherwise.
Last edited by vashti; 10-12-12 at 08:34 AM.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
This promises to be a better week.
I am going back to work Monday and Tuesday, having dinner with my friend Nigel on Wednesday, meeting with a financial planner on Thursday evening (I met him through Ivan the terrible, but he's well-known in this community and I need help), and I am going to a party with a man I know on Friday, after I take my daughter back to UCLA for yet another medical appointment. Then I am working through the weekend.
It's so much easier to grieve when you are productive.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
I am finishing up day 8, and I still feel like shit.
A mid-level boss at my work has been "jokingly" asking me to set her up with Ivan when I am done with him (routinely, for the last year!). She has even asked me if he is good in bed! I can't even tell her I have cut things off, because I don't want to be harassed about it. I can't believe how predatory some women are.![]()
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
Personally I wouldn't tolerate such comments. Would it be possible to talk to your HR about this incident?
It's not a single incident. She's been doing this EVERY time I see her for a year. I laughed at first, because things were good between me and Ivan back then, but I haven't been laughing for the last few months. Even if I never speak to Ivan again, I damn sure don't want to give him to anyone I know. He is perfectly capable of finding his own women, and I guess I never learned to share well.
I mentioned it to my immediate boss last night at our holiday party after that woman asked if I was done with HER boyfriend yet. (I told her that if I ever wanted to get even with her for some reason, I would give her his number.) My boss was shocked. Maybe she will say something.
It's such a weird position to be in.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
i kinda feel bad for her. she sounds REALLY desperate.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.