Been seeing someone for a month, he's 28 I'm 21. Haven't slept w/him yet but he's stayed over a few times. Asked me to be his gf, invited me to his parents house for christmas (I didn't accept or decline, I haven't really decided yet), thought he was genuinely interested in me....when he left my house last week as he was saying goodbye he said "I don't have to say it but you know I do" and he kissed me. Then two days went by and I didn't hear from him. I text him to see if we were still meeting up since we had plans. He seemed distant/uninterested and I told him that. He said "I wondered if you were into it or if i'm pushing things too fast, that's why I backed off a little." I told him I WAS into it and to please let me know if he changed his mind. (Thinking that he didn't have the balls to tell me it was over). He says "I haven't changed anything." Two more days go by....don't hear from him so I text him today just lighthearted joking around. Conversation lasted for a few hours but he hasn't asked to see me again/set up another date.
So....is he over me because I didn't sleep with him? Was he lying to me this whole time? Or he really isn't sure if I'm into him? It's been a week since he's seen me so obviously he's not missing me that much right? He is not some arrogant cocky guy, he is kind of dorky (but i like him for that!) and several times he asked me if i liked him/how much i liked him and I kind of just joked around and said oh a little. I want him to either tell me it's over so I can move on or tell me he still wants to see me. So how do I make that happen?