Hi, I'm looking for a female perspective on an issue I have with a girl in work.
We are really good friends for about 6 years. About 5 years ago I started having feelings for her but she shot me down. Things were awkward for a while. Soon after she started a long-term relationship and the feelings went away. However, she split up with the guy a couple of months ago and since then the feelings have come back big-time. I'm pretty sure she still doesn't like me (although sometimes I do, but it's probably just natural for her to be real nice). She hardly ever goes out with work (I haven't been out with her socially in about 3 years), but this girl is affecting my other nights out even though she's not there. Tomorrow is a big night out and she says she may or may not go. I know if she goes I'll probably be hanging round her like a love sick puppy with nothing happening or if she's not I'll be thinking about her. Any advice please?????