Hey, i'm an 17 yo guy and my gf is 16. We've been dating for a couple of months now and only kissed "plainly" i guess would be the word. I can see that she seems to want me to take it a step further, though i know it's not for sex, she has said to me she'd never want to have sex with anyone she hasn't been dating for at least a couple of years and so on. My question is: what would be a safe next step? for ex. a kiss against a wall while holding her thigh? grabbing her butt when kissing? a french kiss? Any recommendations on a "safe" step? I don't want to come off as being too forward.