So confused...need some advise

[drea101]

Ok well this is sort of a long story but I am so confused and i really dont know what to do anymore. Ill try to explain the whole story as much as i can. Well i have this friend Mike. I met him a couple of years ago from a mutual friend. At first i felt nothing for him i had no feelings i didnt find him attractive or anything. But this passed summer my feelings for him started to grow. He would message me every single day. We would talk and we started to get really close. To the point where we called each other our best friends. Well i used to like this guy luis..and there was a time where i got so drunk that i ended up calling mike to come get me at a club and when he got there i told him i didnt need him anymore which was a completely bitchy move. I regreted it ofcourse and he still brings it up to this day. Mike has a tendency of being a whore. ANywayys i started to catch feelings he would alwayus flirt with me. messages me almost every single day. Until this weekend. we had sex (wasnt the first time ) and then we were driving and he told me how much he appreciates me and thats the reason he likes me...i didnt know how to take it and didnt know what he ment so my initial reaction was to say **** off in a jokingly way...after that i could tell he got upset. He then brang up how their was only two girls that he would settle down with. I got upset at that cuz i wasnt sure if one of them was me..later on that night i ended up going to the same club as him...and i see him with this girl that he sometimes hooks up with making out etc..i got mad he tried talking to me at the club and i just brushed him off and told him to **** off..The whole night he was asking my friends why i was mad at him...at least 5 times he asked..i got a message at 5 in the mornhing and then later on in the afternoon. Did not respond and he ended up msging my friend again asking why im mad..i gave him messaged him told him how upset i was for seeing that last night..and he kept apologizing saying hes sorry he doesnt want me mad at him etc...and said i was his best friend...so now i dont know what to think..am i in a friend zone ? should i just move on and forget about him? what is he thinking? He once told me that he doesnt express his feelings towards girls he likes because hes been hurt in the passed.and im afraid to express mine because i dont want to be hurt. This has madeeee me so stressed out and i need some advise on what to do.

[HeartIsAching]

You want advice? Ok, get some relationship counseling, find out why you self-sabotage, and learn how to stop.