I've been involved with various meet up groups and there is one I've loved going to. Well, last month I saw the organizer for this meet up group was organizing an event I couldn't go to. I had plans elsewhere. Well, I saw this guy on the list of people that were going. He caught my eye. So, I write to him... a bold move for me. I said " sadly, I can't make it to this event but I hope to see you at another one." We'll he never responded. However, there was an event that I went to, on another day, and he was there. He just starred at me. He said nothing to me. I went a week later to a catholic meet up and surprisingly he was there. He approached me and we spoke. Again, giving me the stare. Lol. I left early from the meetup that day. I went home and wrote to him I was going to be going to an event with my favorite meetup. I said hopefully you can go. He wrote back that he did reserve to go. We'll he was there and I was too at the event. He made a stronger effort to get to know me and talk. However, there were many long periods of silence, At the end of the night I left. However, as I was leaving out the door he ran to me and said it was nice seeing you today. I said likewise and kept leaving out the door. In my mind I said to myself he's just being polite because he probably knows I like him. We'll the next day I got a email from him saying he had a nice time talking to me and would I be interested in meeting up for coffee, sometime? I'm confused. He's perusing friendship?