Hello,
I started dating a very special woman in June, we were inseperable for 2 months (she told me she loves me at that time). She had a very abusive marriage, has been divorced for 4 yrs. She was also abused as a child and has been dealing with her ex husband (restraining orders, courts, etc..) One of her problems is that she was always late, in August I raised my voice to her (she ended up crying and immediately said she can not see me) I felt so badly and tried to explain this to her with no avail.
In October she called me out of the blue, we met for coffee at that time and I could tell she was severely stressed and depressed, she said I am the only person she can count on. In October we went out very casually a few times and would hug goodbye but have not been intimate since July and have not talked about getting back together exclusively. There has been a number of times when I would ask her out she she would say she is too tired or cancel at the last minute. (this could be due to depression) I seem to be getting mixed signals from her.
FAST FORWARD TO CHRISTMAS: When we were dating in June she would never have me over her house to meet her children, This month I have been over her house several times (this is a HUGE deal for her as no other men have met her kids or family) and she invited me and my children to her home for Christmas to meet her family. I did bring her a few gifts and wrote the following card:
Jill,
You are Special. Sometimes you meet someone for a reason, without you knowing it, you have changed me.
Whenever you want to talk or need anything, I am here for you unconditionally.
Have a wonderful Christmas; believe that your dreams will come true in 2013.
Love, Scott
I was a little depressed when I received a card from her and she did NOT sign it, 'Love'
Then next day I got a text which brightened my day:
I just want you to know how impressed I was with the gifts and the cards are the most beautiful cards I ever received. Thank you very much! I love the bracelets, the calendar and the angels. I took the angels and the calendar to the office. I love them!!!
__________________________________________________ ________________________
She is very very busy with work and extremely stress and depressed with her life situation.
I do love this woman and feel she is my soulmate (I am just not sure how she feels about me) I do have opportunities to be w other women and have refused. How do I know what her feeling are for me? Not sure I can come straight out and ask her.
Any advice would be very much helpful
Thanks